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Brett Ullman
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Добавлен 2 мар 2006
Welcome to Navigating Everything. In this channel, I hope to help you as a parent, leader, or student navigate tough topics like parenting, mental health, marriage, media, and others.
Husband to Dawn and father to Zoe and Ben, Brett and his family live in Ajax, Ontario, Canada, where Brett leads and directs the charity Worlds Apart.
Brett was a teacher with the Toronto District School Board for 10 years before speaking full-time in 2005. Brett has a Master’s degree in Evangelism and Leadership from Wheaton Grad School in Chicago and is also a graduate of the Arrow Leadership Program. He also graduated in Aug 2023 from Yorkville University with his Masters in Counselling Psychology and is currently a registered psychotherapist practicing out of LifeCare Centres in Bowmanville and Pickering, Ontario.
My top book suggestions on all the topics I speak on - www.amazon.ca/shop/brettullman
Husband to Dawn and father to Zoe and Ben, Brett and his family live in Ajax, Ontario, Canada, where Brett leads and directs the charity Worlds Apart.
Brett was a teacher with the Toronto District School Board for 10 years before speaking full-time in 2005. Brett has a Master’s degree in Evangelism and Leadership from Wheaton Grad School in Chicago and is also a graduate of the Arrow Leadership Program. He also graduated in Aug 2023 from Yorkville University with his Masters in Counselling Psychology and is currently a registered psychotherapist practicing out of LifeCare Centres in Bowmanville and Pickering, Ontario.
My top book suggestions on all the topics I speak on - www.amazon.ca/shop/brettullman
Marriage Insights #10 - Sign up for Marriage Minute emails
Marriage Insights #10. Sign up for the Marriage Minute by the Gottman Institute
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Often it is based around what is called the Gottman Sound Relationship House. I will put a link in the description to an article they have on what this is. Basically, your marriage is like a house. It needs walls. Trust, commitment. And then the relationship is built floor by floor.
Link to Article about Gottman Sound Relationship House - www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/
To get better in your marriage why not add these emails 2x a week to what you are already doing.
You can find all of my marriage insights on my website here - www.br...
Click here to sign up: www.gottman.com/marriage-minute/
Often it is based around what is called the Gottman Sound Relationship House. I will put a link in the description to an article they have on what this is. Basically, your marriage is like a house. It needs walls. Trust, commitment. And then the relationship is built floor by floor.
Link to Article about Gottman Sound Relationship House - www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/
To get better in your marriage why not add these emails 2x a week to what you are already doing.
You can find all of my marriage insights on my website here - www.br...
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Marriage Insights #9 - Book Suggestion: Morgan Johnson
Просмотров 705 месяцев назад
As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I am going to bring you all along for the journey, I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can find. You can find them all on my website here - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/ Marriage Insights #9 - Book Suggestion Author: Morgan Johnson Title: Rebuilding Trus...
Marriage Insights #8 - less TV
Просмотров 635 месяцев назад
Marriage Insights #8 - less TV As I research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will bring you all along for the journey. I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can find. This video is straightforward. We watch too much TV and spend too little time building intimacy and attachment in our relationships. ℹ️ More great...
Marriage Insights #7 - the Great Sex Rescue book suggestion
Просмотров 1225 месяцев назад
Marriage Insights #7 - The Great Sex Rescue book suggestion As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I am going to bring you all along for the journey. I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can find. Sex seems to be one of those topics that we rarely speak on and is something really important to address in...
Marriage Insights #6 - card decks for improved communication
Просмотров 766 месяцев назад
Marriage Insights #6 - card decks for improved communication As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I am going to bring you all along for the journey, I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can find. Some couples are struggling trying to find things to talk about. These card decks specifically designed fo...
Marriage Insights #5 - Rituals of Connection
Просмотров 696 месяцев назад
Marriage Insights #5 - What are your rituals of connections in your marriage? As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I am going to bring you all along for the journey, I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can find. You can find them all on my website here - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/ 3 ritu...
Marriage Insights #4: Book Suggestion - What Makes Love Last
Просмотров 746 месяцев назад
Marriage insights #4. As I start my research for a new talk, Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will be posting all of the great books, links, quotes, and other resources as I find them. You can find all of my Marriage Insights on this RUclips Channel as well as on my website - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/ The book suggestion today is from John Gottman and Nan Silver and their book "...
Marriage Insights #3: Great quote - John Gottman
Просмотров 1486 месяцев назад
As I start my research for a new talk, Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will be posting all of the great books, links, quotes, and other resources as I find them. You can find all of my Marriage Insights on this RUclips Channel as well as on my website - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/ The quote today is from John Gottman and his book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work." "...
Marriage Insights #2 - Book Suggestion: Eve Rodsky
Просмотров 676 месяцев назад
As I start my research for a new talk, Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will be posting all of the great books, links, quotes, and other resources as I find them. This is an amazing book about the often neglected conversation of emotional labour in our marriages. The deck of cards is a practical way to look at everything that needs to be done in a home to make it function properly and fairly....
Marriage Insights #1 - Book Suggestion: John Gottman
Просмотров 1676 месяцев назад
As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: navigating everything I am going to bring you all along for the journey, I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can find. You can find them all on my website here - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/ Marriage insights #1 - Book Suggestion This is one of my favourite books on Marriage....
How To Make Your Church A Safe And Welcoming Space For People With Mental Illness
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This is a video I recorded a few months ago for the yearly Thrive Conference, which is an online conference for your church, team, and congregation on all aspects of mental health. www.thriveandcultivate.com/ My talk is looking at ways to make our churches safe spaces for people who struggle with mental health/illness. Love to hear your thoughts on this. ℹ️ More great resources on my website: w...
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 10 - Conclusion and Resources)
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This is video 10/10 in the series Men: Navigating Everything looking at some concluding remarks and resources to take-away. The most popular searches on my RUclips channel are various terms that relate to how to be a better father, husband, or boyfriend. It is evident that the desire to better oneself in this area is of great interest. The next step beyond a desire to grow in this area is the q...
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 9 - Loneliness)
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This is video 9/10 in the series Men: Navigating Everything looking at the area of loneliness. The most popular searches on my RUclips channel are various terms that relate to how to be a better father, husband, or boyfriend. It is evident that the desire to better oneself in this area is of great interest. The next step beyond a desire to grow in this area is the question of how to achieve thi...
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 8- Sex)
Просмотров 190Год назад
This is video 8/10 in the series Men: Navigating Everything looking at the area of sex. The most popular searches on my RUclips channel are various terms that relate to how to be a better father, husband, or boyfriend. It is evident that the desire to better oneself in this area is of great interest. The next step beyond a desire to grow in this area is the question of how to achieve this. I lo...
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 7 - Finances)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 7 - Finances)
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 6 - Parenting)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 6 - Parenting)
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 5 - Marriage)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 5 - Marriage)
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 4 - Spiritual Health)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 4 - Spiritual Health)
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 3 - Mental Health)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 3 - Mental Health)
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 2 - Physical Health)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 2 - Physical Health)
Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 1 - Introduction)
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Navigating Life as a Husband and Father: A Man's Guide (Part 1 - Introduction)
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 6/6 Bonus Video: Parents Discussion
Просмотров 38Год назад
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 6/6 Bonus Video: Parents Discussion
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 5/6 Conclusion
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Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 5/6 Conclusion
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 4/6 Culture
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Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 4/6 Culture
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 3/6 Faith
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Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 3/6 Faith
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 2/6 Media
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Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 2/6 Media
Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 1/6 Introduction
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Media.Faith.Culture Course for parents and students: Part 1/6 Introduction
How to become a better parent: Conclusion & Resources (Parenting: Navigating Everything - Part 6)
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How to become a better parent: Conclusion & Resources (Parenting: Navigating Everything - Part 6)
How to become a better parent: Discipline (Parenting: Navigating Everything - Part 5)
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How to become a better parent: Discipline (Parenting: Navigating Everything - Part 5)
How to become a better parent: Communication (Parenting: Navigating Everything - Part 4)
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How to become a better parent: Communication (Parenting: Navigating Everything - Part 4)
Here’s the real challenge…. All of my child’s peers are parented by people that “let the child lead”…….. good luck with that
Duh…. I have a 6 year old son who is a total stud. He crashes his bike in gravel and picks himself up and gets on with his day. I’m 58. My brother is in a “2 daddy two mommy “ situation. His “son” is 16 and can’t ride bicycle
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Just found this 5 yrs later and its still relevant and worth the time. Thanks
This was really awesome, thank you so much ❤
What if you find it difficult to sleep at night?
Would you please link the longer video this comes from or link the articles that you referred to, pretty please?
Top one: Easypeasy method
Thanks Brett. So glad you found the book helpful!!! 🎉
LOL, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much simpler and potent now!
I am 47 and have been dealing with severe panic disorder for 17 years and recently my 7 year old son has them full blown and it’s the toughest thing I’ve ever had to deal with
Spanking is very ok
That you sir and God bless you
I’ll say at 38 years old I can quit it easier than somebody that’s been been married or experienced sex. I got to the point of that’s all it is release no hugging kissing nope you’re done go on with your day.
me pov *how do these kids have one at 6th but not me at 10th*
The problem I’m facing with this topic and don’t know where to go. I am a renewed christian I would say and I’m getting closer to Jesus/God And I am gay and married with my husband. And from this renewed faith. I feel like I’m being pulled back and forth with same sex sin. Especially because I’m married. Some people say it’s a sin and others say it’s not because we’re talking about a loving committed relationship that’s also Christ centered. Because I’m Christian he’s catholic. So we both believe in god. And worship him together. We go to church every Sunday. So that’s been my struggle. And for the sake that it’s a sin because I don’t want to loose my spouse but I don’t want to go to hell for having sexual relations with my spouse. I stopped um doing anything sexual. But now I’m faced with urges for masturbation because I can’t have sex with my spouse for it being possibly a sin and I feel bad because I can’t be intimate with him for that reason. now I’m left with masturbation. But I feel like now that’s a sin as well.
You need yo challenge the 84 perrcent. Women , couples need to communicate if there is some aspect of unhapines. s. Dont wait till a survey
Your information is misinforming women rape men alot. It isn't reported and or taken seriously
Thank sir but but i need more of this lesson pls
Glad you enjoyed the video
If people post explicit and clean versions of the same video post on social media, this action is similar to how most explicit music is enforced.
This is great advice. Thanks! We are going to be sharing your videos with our teens. We’ve talked with them a lot about dating but I think it will help them to see it from someone else.
Glad you enjoyed the video. I also have an entire talk called dating for life: the questions on my channel as well which is good for students/
god bless you
Thank you very much for sharing your wonderful thoughts
Glad you enjoyed the video.
To see all of the marriage insights click here - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/
We used to do on a monthly basis as agm wasn’t regular enough
Monthly is a great idea. We did a main one each year and then smaller ones as needed.
you can find all of my marriage insights here - You can find them all on my website here - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/
Love to hear how decreasing your TV time helps your relationship.
Awesome shirt
With this tough conversation, I would love to hear of any great books you found helpful other than Sheila's book.
You can find all of the marriage insights on my website off of this link - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage/
Love to hear if you have used card decks before. If so which ones did you find helpful?
Love to hear what are the current rituals of connection in your marriage.
I have such a beautiful wife who deserves nothing but the best. My wife has acknowledged that I've been working on myself, but I know I haven't done enough. I've been working hard on not being so critical and also being soft spoken. For a while, it seemed like every word that came out of my mouth was critical or harsh. My wife felt disconnected from me for a bit. I'm making big steps to stop negative behavior. One of my biggest struggles is addiction that many men get introduced to. Its very very hard to break from it, but I know its very possible as you said. I love my wife, so the battle to be better is worth it
Thanks for sharing. A good Counsellor might be helpful in your journey.
This is video #4 in my series on marriage insights. You can find them all on this link - www.brettullman.com/blog-feed-marriage
For those watching and debating on trying counseling. I encourage you to give it a try. Most of my adult life I avoided it (mainly due to a bad counseling experience) but do not give up! You can find a counsellor or therapist that works for you.. don’t be afraid to try different ones. It changed my life completely.
Great challenge for everyone. Thanks for the post.
You can find all of my Marriage Insights on both this RUclips channel as well as on my website brettullman.com
Thank you Brett, I'm getting married next October, so I will be looking into these!🙏🏻 God bless you. Praying for you
Best of luck! thanks for your message.
Love to hear how these resources helped your reltionship..
South Carolina
Still trying to be best husband to my wife..
Great to hear. Check out my talk men navigating everything on my channel as well.
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I really hate the "bibblical" defense for spanking. Maybe the bible does have a few bits which would appear to say that you should whack your kids, but hasn't the last 40-odd years of child development research taught us that there are better, less harmful ways to teach kids right and wrong? And don't get me started on those sickos who use belts...
Couldn't agree more. We should be setting up our kids for success and this includes making sure they have options. Another very practical reason to ensure your kids get their license is for years of experience which will reduce their insurance costs sooner. Even if they aren't driving a lot, having them on insurance early will help them when they are ready to go out on their own.
Great thought.
I'm not sure if you've ever had problems with lust or pornography, but whether or not it's true, thank you so much for actually playing the role of being man enough to shed light on these things.
I was not expecting that last point.
My mother doesn't just puts me away from smartphones but also celk phone computers laptops and even a smartwatcb like ayo?? Its almost 2024 Everyone is out there havig their phone what abt me?
4:41 I am at that age
I'm a woman, working to he a good wife (I'm not even married yet, if I do get married I wanna do my best), I'm watching this video to see what to look for in a man.
So is it bad or no I’m confused
On point